Tuesday, October 11, 2011

Annual General Meeting 2011

Tuesday October 18th, 2011

From 5:00pm-7:00pm

351 Ferguson Street 3rd Floor


At the meeting, Emily and Joel will be discussing program events, updates as well as our budget and plans for the future. There is also an exciting opportunity to become our Family Representative as one of PEP’s board of directors. During the meeting we will be accepting nominations and then voting for our new representative. Even if you are not actively involved with the program at this time, your attendance and support would be very much appreciated. The Nipissing Family Program thrives on support from its membership, as families do with one another.




Thursday, September 8, 2011

SOS


Mental illness affects one in five Canadians… seven million of our friends, neighbours, colleagues and loved ones will need help for mental health problems this year. Many will not get it because of the stigma attached to the illness or because the resources simply aren’t there to provide help.

The Canada Post Foundation for Mental Health was established to raise awareness about mental illness and build the capacity of front-line, grassroots organizations supporting individuals and families coping with mental illness. The Foundation is able to do this thanks to the support of Canada Post employees and thousands of Canadians.

There is a great need for better understanding of mental illness, which affects one in five Canadians, and community-based resources focused on those affected by it. Thanks to Canada Post’s employees, customers and suppliers, $4.8 million has been raised so the Foundation can help address this need.

By September 2011, more than 90 groups offering direct, front-line, community-based support to individuals and families coping with mental illnesses will have received critical funding from the Foundation to support their efforts. The Foundation’s grants are making a real difference in the quality and range of front-line services available in communities across the country, providing a direct impact for people living with mental illness by improving the quality of their lives.

Each year Canada Post issues a new Mental Health stamp. The 2011 stamp will be unveiled and launched in Montreal on Tuesday September 6, 2011. Our local North Bay Post Office has partnered with PEP to hold a local launch on Tuesday September 13, 2011Commencing at 1:30PM.

The North Bay launch will be hosted by PEP

We welcome all to attend in support of mental illness. We will have guest speakers, the unveiling of the stamp, cutting of the decorated cake and refreshments.

Bulletin!!!

It has just been confirmed that Miriane Majeau, the designer of the 2011 Canada Post Mental Health stamp, will be in attendance via a LIVE video hookup. WOW!!!!!!!

Help us Stamp Out Stigma  

 




 

Wednesday, July 6, 2011

Summer

Well I must say our pot luck dinner was amazing... I would like to thank our family member for sharing her beautiful beach home with us. Food was good company was perfect. I hope you all enjoyed yourselves as much as I did, I hope we will continue to get stronger and embrace others with support we all deserve. Thank You for all of your contribution.

I am looking forward to our meeting on July 19th, 2011 were will have a presentation about our Awareness Campaign "Flying for Families". Our pilot and co pilot will recapture the event beginning to end, to allow us to see this journey with all their experiences.

Hope everyone is finding themselves enjoying their summer, one thing I don’t want anyone to forget is the importance of Self-Care here is an interesting thing I came across and wanted to share with you all that might help with your self-care.

Ways to Nurture Myself


PHYSICAL

Take a walk

Ride a bike

Soak in a hot bath, with candles and music

Exercise at the gym

Stretch and move to music

Practice Yoga postures

Take a course in Tai Chi, water aerobics, or yoga

Sit in the sun for 15 minutes

Change one thing to improve your diet

Watch birds and animals interact in nature

Go swimming

Sit in a garden or park

Take a nap

Get a massage

Eat totally healthy for one day


EMOTIONAL


Deep breath and think, “I am calm and peaceful

Share feelings about an experience with a friend

Listen to music you like

Sing or makes sounds

Hug someone, ask for a hug

Pet your dog or cat

Talk to someone by pre-tending they are facing you in an empty chair

Telephone a long distance friend or relative

Notice what you are feeling several times a day

Write a letter to someone who has hurt you, but do not send it

Feel your fear and take a positive risk for change

Smile at a stranger and send them thoughts of peace, acceptance, joy

Affirm yourself daily

Watch children play; talk to your inner child in a loving, joyful way

Acknowledge yourself for accomplishments you are proud of


MENTAL


Say an affirmation

Read a book or magazine article

Express your thoughts & feelings in a journal

Make a to do list

Write a poem

Write a letter

Listen to tapes

Email a friend

List things you will do to improve your life

Update negative beliefs that limit your life

Journal write daily about your reactions, thoughts and feelings for a month

List your traits, needs and want

Make a list of short term and long term goals

Preview your day upon awakening, Review upon retiring

Work on your family tree

Monday, June 6, 2011

Flying for Families


Public Service Announcement


"On June 15th, 2011 from 6 am. to 10 pm., the first non-stop flight by aeroplane from North America to Europe will be re-enacted in its entirety in honour of the courage, sacrifices and dedication of families with loved ones having experience with mental illness.

Be a part of increasing the awareness and reducing the stigma surrounding mental illness. Join our team and watch or read about the successes and challenges of this historic joining of the old world and new by following our pilot and navigator as they fly across the stormy North Atlantic in a purpose-built cockpit with the latest cutting-edge desktop simulation hardware and software. Watch them on the big screen at the mall, follow them on their blog or twitter or combine both and have a great time supporting mental health by participating in 'Flying for Families' .

Please join us for some or all of this epic undertaking by coming in person to the North Bay Mall on Lakeshore Drive in North Bay or by Internet; following the links at http://www.pepplace.org

See the promo videos and links at:

http://neonorg.ca/NewsandEvents.aspx

Find us on Facebook at

http://www.facebook.com/home.php?sk=group_179590388730633

View events also on YouTube at

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pCtQx-nnIO8

Be a part of the excitement. Call PEP at 705-494-4774 Ext: 228 for more details.

Monday, May 9, 2011

Wacky Wisdom 4 Positive Living

If you find yourself facing the same fear repeatedly, you may be able to defeat it by using the "Attitude Reversal" method, as shared by Viktor E. Frankl in Man's Search for Meaning:

A young doctor consulted Frankl, a psychiatrist, because he had a fear of perspiring heavily around his patients, causing himself embarrassment.  The young doctor was so afraid of perspiring that the fear itself often brought on a bout of perspiration, and he would find himself sweating excessively. 

Frankl suggested that the next time he felt this anxiety coming on, rather than trying not to break out in a sweat, he should deliberately try to show people how much he could sweat.

Frankl says that even thought the doctor had suffered from his phobia for more than four years, after only one therapeutic session, he overcame his fear.

This "treatment" replaces the fear with an absurd wish,which can deflate the power of the anxiety.

Similar advice is often successful in helping insomniacs.  When they tell themselves to stay awake, they often fall asleep. Why? Because they remove the anxiety they fell over "trying" to fall asleep.

Going Bonkers Magazine. Copyright 2011

Thursday, April 21, 2011

Happy Easter

Happy Easter to you and your family from Emily and Joel,

It means so much at Easter time

To keep in touch with friends and family

To wish them happiness and cheer

And joy that never ends.

That's why this brings a warm "hello"

Especially for you and your family

Together with best wishes

For a happy Springtime too.



Wednesday, April 13, 2011

A NEW YEAR BEGINS AGAIN


The New Year begins on January 1st; however, for me a New Year and journey began April 1st, 2011. April is away for maternity leave and has transferred her responsibilities to me. My name is Emily Warren and I will be April’s replacement for a year. I am excited to be working with the amazing families that are involved with Nipissing Family Program and helping them through their everyday struggles, joys and frustrations.

I am really excited for the next year and look forward to meeting all of our family members. I hope to enjoy some amazing experiences with everyone this year. I bring many years experience in helping people, advocating, and lived experience.

I am available via email at fasst@bellnet.ca or telephone at (705) 494-4774 ext. 226 and I look forward to hearing from all of you at some point soon. Thank you to Joel and family members for the warm welcome.


In addition, Joel and I are happy to announce the birth of April's baby boy Miles. He arrived on April 6th, 2011 at 6:37 p.m., weighing 8 pounds. April and baby are doing great and she is really enjoying her time with the new baby. Congrats to April and her family!




Thursday, March 3, 2011

We have a responsibility to help the poor...

The opening sentence of a story Wednesday in the Ottawa Citizen should concern us all: "We haven't progressed very far from the 'Let them eat cake' attitude of decapitated French royalty."

The story documented the findings of a recent survey conducted for the Salvation Army that looked at the attitudes of Canadians toward those people who are impoverished. The survey's findings are alarming.


They demonstrate a type of bigotry reminiscent of the British feudal days.

Instead of classes ranging from lords and ladies to serfs, the survey demonstrated the disdain many of us feel toward those in need.

According to the survey, almost half of Canadians actually believe that if someone wants to work, they can always find a job, regardless of the unemployment rate.


More than 40% of those surveyed think that a good work ethic is all someone needs to escape poverty.


It sounds plausible until you are the person looking for work. The survey also found that nearly 25% of us believe poor people are just lazy and that 28% of Canadians actually believe poor people have lower moral values than the rest of us.


Do we really think poor people are bad? What some of the people surveyed failed to consider is that many of those apparently in the middle class are just one pay cheque away from being poor. Too many of us have credit cards that are maxed out and a layoff could lead to financial ruin, especially if interest rates rise as predicted.


Those who dismiss the circumstances poor people face should remember: "There but for the grace of God go I."

Some of the homeless and destitute people we see on city streets do have substance abuse and mental health problems but they are no less deserving of support and guidance than any other person.


We have come to rely on organizations like the Salvation Army and other charities to reinforce Canada's sagging social safety net, to try to stop people from falling through it. But even organizations like the Army face difficult times.

The fact is poor people face challenges that are different from many of us. To put all of them in the same category ignores the reality of their situations.

In Nanaimo, Salvation Army officials are worried that its thrift stores aren't receiving enough donations.

These donations are cleaned up and sold at the Army's three thrift store locations to help provide operational funding for the New Hope Centre and the organization's meal and hamper programs.


Instead of being critical of those in need, for whatever reason, Canadians should focus their concern on federal and provincial governments who wash their hands when it comes to poverty issues and decide to download them onto the backs of already financially strapped municipalities.


Attitudes continually change but the needs of people for shelter, food and respect do not. There may be a few people who try to take advantage of social services wherever they live but the vast majority of poor people are just trying to make it through their day.


Hopefully, the Salvation Army's study does not reflect the attitudes of most Canadians.

There is no evidence that poor people are stupid, have lower moral values and are lazy.


Too few of us recognize that the people we see on the streets are but for their circumstances no different than the rest of us.

© Copyright (c) Postmedia News
Bi-polar princess and courageous mental health advocate Victoria Maxwell


In partnership with Crest.BD, Victoria Maxwell uses her love of theatre to raise mental health awareness.


Victoria Maxwell is an award-winning actress who has worked with famous leading men like Johnny Depp, David Duchovny, and John Travolta. She's a mental health educator and playwright with over two decades of experience.
Maxwell is also mentally ill.
After being diagnosed with bipolar disorder, anxiety, and psychosis, Maxwell became active in the promotion of mental health awareness and addressing stigma. During the past decade, she has combined her theatre background, professional knowledge, and personal experiences with mental illness to offer a unique perspective on the lived experience of mental illness.


Her critically acclaimed one-woman shows "Crazy for Life" and "Funny… You Don’t Look Crazy," debuted to sold-out audiences in England, New Zealand, the United States and Canada. Irreverently funny and charismatic, Maxwell infuses each of her performances with important messages about mental health awareness interspersed with her personal history.


Maxwell is the creative director of Crazy for Life Co., a company that aims to educate health care professionals about mental illness and workplace wellness. She also presents customized workshops for conferences, in-house training, and a range of services for individuals and families, colleges and universities, and corporations. Her latest project is a one-woman show being developed in collaboration with Crest.BD.
Crest.BD is a collaborative research team studying the psychosocial issues in bipolar disorder. Current research includes the impact of recovery narratives in bipolar illness, attitudes towards the police, and the impact of bipolar disorder on employment experiences. A central tenant of Crest.BD is fostering and promoting community based research for individuals with bipolar disorder and their family members. Crest.BD organizes a number of free events open to the public throughout the greater Vancouver area.


I recently attended a community engagement night organized by Crest.BD and was fortunate enough to sit down with Victoria Maxwell. Taken with her vivacious energy and charisma, her passion for raising mental health awareness was immediately apparent.


When asked how she became involved in mental health advocacy, Maxwell recounted her initial struggle in accepting her diagnosis. After being diagnosed in 1992, she “didn’t know what bipolar disorder was." She described her concerns about taking medication and the fear that her personality would be pathologized. She had difficulty accepting her diagnosis due to the lack of knowledge available.


One of the biggest barriers to treatment people with mental illness face, she said, is this lack of open dialogue and discussion. “I wanted to see more discussion to prevent suffering and stigma [in mental illness]," Maxwell said.


Stigma, and particularly self-stigma, is one of the biggest barriers to treatment for mental illness. Realizing that open dialogue was one of the most effective ways to disarm the prejudices associated with mental illness, she became a mental health educator and an advocate for mental health awareness. “It is important to be creative, to share stories and to listen," she said.
This direct contact can only be achieved through individuals speaking out about mental health and illness, however, she cautioned that this disclosure should be appropriate to the situation. “The onus is on us [people with a mental illness] to stand up and be counted,” Maxwell said. “I think if all of us do, then we will be stronger for it”.


When asked whether she had any suggestions for people living with a mental illness, Maxwell offered some powerful advice. “Be as compassionate towards yourself as you can. Reach out for help, and if you don’t get it, reach out again until you find someone who cares. There is help and it does get better.”


Mental illness affects an estimated one in five Canadians throughout their lifetime, the Public Health Agency states. Societal impacts of mental illness are pervasive, impacting individuals, their families, health care systems and the community at large. Research has shown that the estimated economic annual cost of mental illness in Canada is $14.4 billion. According to the World Health Organization, mental illness is the leading cause of disability in Canada.


Fortunately, there is help available for individuals with mental illness. Thanks to people like Victoria Maxwell, who has the courage to stand up and be counted, mental health awareness is being pushed to the forefront of Canadian consciousness.


Victoria Maxwell’s play will debut in May, and is open to mental health professionals and to individuals with a mental illness and their families. For more information about Maxwell, visit her website and her blog at Psychology Today.


For more information about research, team members, and knowledge exchange activities conducted by Crest.BD, visit www.crestbd.ca.

Tuesday, February 22, 2011

CAMH launches first Research Laboratory on wheels dedicated to mental health and addictions


For immediate release – February 22, 2011 – (Toronto) – Today, the Centre for Addiction and Mental Health (CAMH) is launching Canada’s first mobile research laboratory to study mental health and addictions in communities across Ontario. The mobile lab will allow CAMH researchers to reach underserved populations in rural, remote and First Nations communities to help improve prevention and treatment services in these communities, and beyond.
“The mobile research lab fills a gap by bringing world-class research by epidemiologists, psychiatrists, neuroscientists and social scientists to communities that are far from research centres,” says Dr. Bruce G. Pollock, CAMH’s Vice-President of Research. “The results will be shared with local health and social service agencies, enabling them to improve service delivery.”
CAMH scientists will embark on the lab’s first research program this spring. Researchers are targeting Ontario communities that are less advantaged due to higher unemployment or poverty rates, among other factors. Among the series of studies planned, one line of research will tease out the complex interactions between a person’s genes and problems in the community, which may put people at risk for mood and anxiety disorders, substance abuse and violence.
The lab will be used to conduct interviews and surveys, run focus groups, and take hair, saliva or blood samples to measure stress or obtain genetic information. This information will produce knowledge about communities that is often not available from large-scale telephone surveys. Over time, as information is gathered from across the province, CAMH researchers will create a powerful database that will advance our collective knowledge of mental illness, addictions and violence.
“The research lab is a major milestone of CAMH’s Research Renaissance Project, which is our largest ever scientific endeavour,” notes Dr. Pollock. “The lab reflects the project’s vision of working from the neuron to the neighbourhood level to advance our understanding, treatment and prevention of mental illness.”
The mobile research laboratory received funding from the Canada Foundation for Innovation (CFI). The first research program, Researching Health in Ontario Communities, was supported by a team grant from the Canadian Institutes of Health Research (CIHR).
“‘This mobile research lab will have a real and positive impact on the Ontario communities who need it most,” said The Honourable Tony Clement, Minister of Industry and Minister responsible for the CFI.
“CIHR is pleased to support this unique project that will facilitate a partnership between individuals in rural communities and a renowned team of health researchers at CAMH committed to improving brain health through innovative research," said Dr. Anthony Phillips, Scientific Director of the CIHR Institute of Neurosciences, Mental Health and Addiction. “We hope that the mobile research laboratory approach will increase our knowledge of mental health and addiction among rural and remote communities.”

Friday, February 18, 2011

Nipissing Family Art Therapy

Please join us on Tuesday March 8th from 5:00 to 7:00 p.m.

Due to the popularity of our last class, we will be doing some more painting!!
I will have water colour paper and paint available as well as canvas and acrylic paint.
Please feel free to bring any supplies you have at home and would like to share.


Please RSVP with April to reserve your supplies for the evening.
Hope to see you there!!

705 494 4774 x 226








Monday, February 14, 2011

Heroes of Mental Health

Mental illness is truly invisible, but that doesn’t make it any less real for those affected by it. These Canadian Mental Health Association staffers and volunteers dedicate their lives to helping people with mental illness recover their lives—and thrive.

Below you will find a text version of the 12-page CMHA focused article entitled “Heroes of Mental Health” that appears in the December 2010 issue of Reader’s Digest (on the shelves now).
These 12 pages are filled with various stories of CMHA volunteers who work tirelessly to help improve the life-quality and potential of Canadians living with mental illness -- volunteers for community projects, one-on-one mentors, organizers of larger events, etc. Most of these volunteers have also been personally affected by mental-health issues -- be it a parent, a child, a friend, or even the volunteer him/herself, living with, struggling with, striving to overcome the daily challenges of mental illness.

Volunteers highlighted include Drew Jacques and Chris Hill, CMHA Cochrane-Timiskaming; Iman Grewal, CMHA Kitchener-Waterloo; Helen MacDonnell, CMHA, Moncton; Karen Murphy, CMHA, Ontario; Roy Muise, CMHA, Halifax; Steve Bournemann, CMHA, Haliax-Dartmouth, among others. A hearty thank you goes out to all those CMHA volunteers who took the time and effort to share their brave and precious stories with 6 million Reader’s Digest readers across this country!

ONE IN FIVE CANADIANS EXPERIENCES A MENTAL ILLNESS AT SOME POINT, AND MANY SUFFER IN SILENCE BECAUSE OF THE STIGMA.
For the full article, please pick up a December, 2010, issue of Reader's Digest which contains photos and additional information.
Drew Jacques, Chris Hill and others
New Liskeard, ONT.
By William Brown

Outside a Montreal metro station, a mentally ill man begs for change in the bitter January cold; barely a soul notices him, even after he freezes to death. That may seem shocking, but who among us hasn’t avoided the plaintive gaze of a stranger in need, or even dismissed a family member or friend who might need help? Perhaps the men and women celebrated in the following pages.
These people, and thousands like them, go the extra mile for the Canadian Mental Health Association (CMHA), a nationwide charitable organization. These heroes stop. They connect with those in need. They see beyond the stigma and misconceptions that plague the mentally ill.

How did they learn to see what many of us can’t or won’t? What makes them different? Here are their stories.
At first glance, mental­health support in New Liskeard, Ont., seems hard to come by: There are no full­time psychiatrists living in the community. While this lack of mental­health assistance is far from ideal, it has prompted the local CMHA to find other ways of providing support. “Our responsibility is to work with people to help them move from the dire consequences of significant mental illness to recovery, which means living life to the fullest of your ability,” says Drew Jacques, 52, team lead for mental­health services at the Cochrane­Timiskaming branch of the CMHA. “Along the way, we realized there’s value in activities other than just sitting in a room, talking.”
So Jacques, his staff and his team of volunteers did more than just talk: They created a variety of group programs and outings, all in the name of offering those who live with mental illness a safe place to gather, learn, cope and give back. Activities have included community­kitchen cooking classes, yoga and sessions that allow people to express themselves through art.
Chris Hill, 34, is among the many people who have helped to shape the branch’s activities. In addition to providing weekly counselling sessions, Hill, who played university hockey, takes clients to the gym or out for hikes. “There have been times in my life,” he says, “when I’ve gone through anxious episodes or bouts of depression, and exercise has helped me.” Hill noticed the same benefits, along with improved self­esteem, in his clients.
As a result of Hill’s success, and that of two other mental­health clinicians focusing on physical activity, the CMHA paid for the three of them to become certified personal trainers. Last year, the branch launched a pilot project, Active Recovery, adding physical fitness to the many therapeutic activities the organization al­ ready offers.
For a man such as Chris Gatenby, 39, devastated in 2007 by a failed marriage and the departure of his wife and kids, Active Recovery has been a road back from an uncertain future. “I had no way of dealing with the anger,” he says of those first few months alone. “I just kept it all in­side.” He worried about harming him­ self or others. Despite being legally blind, he started boxing and working out in a gym. This helped him channel his anger—but it was still there. One day he walked into the CMHA office in New Liskeard and asked for help. That’s when he met Hill, and his recovery began in earnest. “I’m calmer nowadays, more patient, and I’m kinder to people,” Gatenby says.
His children have since returned to the region, and he is part of their lives again. Gatenby has also found fulfillment by giving back to the CMHA branch that gave him so much. He sits on two committees and helps Hill lead exercise sessions. “It’s awesome,” says Gatenby. “People are changing—becoming stronger, more social—because of me helping them.”
For team lead Jacques, Gatenby’s experience is a great example of the office’s broader goal: to help those with mental­health problems help one another. “People who may have started as clients are now supporting each other after­hours,” Jacques says. “We actually have doctors phoning us, commenting on the good work we’re doing, saying, ‘Whatever you’re doing, keep doing it, because you’re having a tremendous positive impact.’”
• Reprinted with permission from the December 2010 issue of Reader’s Digest magazine. Copyright (c) 2010 by Reader’s Magazines Canada Limited.
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Monday, February 7, 2011

BELL supports Mental Health Awareness!! Lets Talk, February 9th...

Bell Aliant, a sister company of BCE will be joining Bell in promoting Mental Health Awareness Day by participating in the Bell Let’s Talk Campaign.


The Bell Let’s Talk Campaign is a newly launched annual initiative at promoting Mental Health awareness and the effects it has in Canada’s home, workplace and school. Very often a lot of people don’t want like to talk about mental health even though it affects 1 in 5 Canadians. In fact, according to a poll completed by the Canadian Mental Health Association, only 50% of Canadians would tell someone else if they had a mental illness whereas 70% would tell another person if they were diagnosed with Cancer.

Bell hopes to promote the awareness of Mental Health by starting a conversation through its newest charitable campaign.

On February 9, 2011, Bell will donate 5 cents for every long distance call and text messages its customers make on that day to support mental health related programs across the country. It is part of a $50 million initiative Bell has for the mental health community over the next 5 years.



~ Beating the Winter Blues ~
....don't forget your self care!!

Winter got you feeling down? You're not alone. Many people find the winter to be one of the most difficult times of the year and it's no wonder why. First, it's cold, there are few hours of daylight and keeping a busy schedule, or shuffling kids to and from activities can really get you stressed, or depressed. Getting over the winter time blues isn't always easy but with these tips you may find yourself getting back to normal in no time. You can beat the winter time blues and kick that grumpy, irritable self to the curb.

People get depressed for all sorts of reasons and it doesn't always have a quick fix. But, you can make yourself feel better, now. Think about the things that make you happy, good memories that you have, and of the people you love and whom love you back. That's a good start; you're just getting warmed up right now. When I'm feeling a bit run down or grouchy I try to set aside an hour or two for volunteering in the community. Giving back always makes me feel good and I can't help but smile as I think of the people I am helping. Plenty of organizations can use volunteers on a daily basis. Whenever you're starting to get the droopy feelings go down to your church, local animal shelter, or hospital to see if you can volunteer or help out in some way.
 The most important thing you have to remember is not to pack your schedule to the brim. Leave time for yourself and the important things in life. If you over schedule yourself you will not enjoy any of the activities in your day and end up depressed. Remember, if you are the jack of all trades you are the master of none. It may be hard to say no at first, but be strong for yourself and the ones who love you. Don't feel bad about not volunteering on the PTA this year, or not staying that extra hour at work. Instead, use that time to freshen up, take a nap, or do whatever it is you do to recharge.
 Trust me, you will feel much better once you start making time for yourself. If I am rushing around, taking care of other people all day and forgetting about myself, I wind up angry and short tempered. When that happens I just take a deep breath, close my eyes for a second, and then exhale. In my mind I always say to myself, "the task at hand is never more important than I am". That usually gets me feeling better so I can go on with the day. But, this example just shows the importance of scheduling me time.



I do lots of things during me time, it's not always volunteering. A great thing I figured out was to call up some friends for a lunch or dinner date or even just for tea. I always feel better after talking to friends about something that is bothering me. It's almost as a weight has been lifted off my body and I feel lighter as I head to my car and home. Winding down the day with a good book or a hot bath is also relaxing and can make you feel better.

For those times when I'm feeling really tired and exhausted like I head out for a walk or to the pool. Exercise always seems to help get rid of those feelings of fatigue. Using the pool at the YMCA always relaxes me and gets my heart pumping as well. After a nice swim I feel wide awake and my appetite seems to increase. Sometimes a little bit of activity can get you up and going all day.
 Besides doing the obvious you also should do what might not seem so apparent. It's really important to get plenty of sleep and for most of us it seems that is the hardest part to master. We've all heard the statement "early to bed, early to rise make a man healthy, wealthy, and wise". Well, in part it is true. As winter progresses and daylight hours dwindle it is more important that ever to get good nights sleep. Because the sun goes down sooner and comes up earlier you should too. The more sun you see the better you feel.
 If you're spending all day indoors under artificial lighting, go outside and get some sun. Sun helps our bodies' process vitamin D3 which in turn makes you feel better. Just a couple of minutes of direct sunlight are enough for one day. If you want to feel better sooner you should also try a balanced diet. Eat plenty of fruits and vegetables, eat less red meat and pork, and of course drink plenty of water. The right foods will make you feel good from the inside out. If you can't eat right take vitamins. B and C vitamins will keep you from getting sick and give you plenty of energy.

So, if you start feeling stressed or frazzled keep these tips in mind as they may help get you out of a slump. You can beat the winter time blues by focusing on what's important in life; yourself, those that love you, and others that need your help. Remember to schedule me time every day and you will start feeling better right away!


~April


Tuesday, February 1, 2011

Did you know??

"Creating colors, effects, and artistic self-expression relieves stuffed emotions, giving expression where words cannot. Watercolor painting can bring freedom, order, and clarity to our inner thoughts and emotions. Art comes from our own unique experiences and responses to people, places, and things. This is what is so therapeutic about not just looking at art, but creating art. Art is an extremely personal experience, whether releasing emotional trauma, or creating something new, it's something beautiful to focus on and enjoy." Marilee Donivan


Our second Art Therapy class was a hit! Thank you to those of you who came to make it the experience it was. It is always great to see you all. I left feeling relaxed yet energized at the same time and I am really looking forward to our next class together. 

Hope to see you at our class in March.  More details to follow...

~April

Wednesday, January 12, 2011

January's Art Therapy ~ Water Colour at Nipissing Family
Tuesday, January 25th 5:00-7:00 p.m.

Join us for a relaxing evening of Art Therapy where you will be introduced to the very basics of water colour painting. Please note that no artistic skill is required to have fun!
Please R.S.V.P with April Raftis to reserve your seat and materials by January 20th, 2011 at 494 4774 x226


Tuesday, January 11, 2011

Happy 2011 Nipissing Family!!

Loving someone with a mental illness can really challenge us to find every ounce of compassion that we have – often it is given to them.

Today I would like to ask you to gather up some more compassion, find a quiet corner and really acknowledge yourself for the amazing accomplishments and challenges you have faced this year.

It is always so easy to focus on what we didn’t do or the things we said but never meant to.

Now, let’s take a look at ourselves during 2010 in a compassionate way.

Accomplishments

Give this some thought – you may have had a difficult conversation that you didn’t really want to have, set a new boundary or said the unspeakable or did the unthinkable. Write it down.

What did you accomplish this year?



What was your most surprising accomplishment?



What gave you that boost to do it?



What worked really well?



How did you reward yourself?


Let’s talk about rewards for a second. They are so important – share what you have done. Celebrate it in a big way or small way and if you haven’t done so – do it today. It can be just the stuff that helps you keep going during the tougher times.
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Challenges

Oh yeah – when you love someone with mental illness there are lots of these. Sometimes it’s external to you – their behavior or the finances. Other times it’s internal like isolating yourself or feeling overwhelmed because you’re just so darn sick of it all. Sometimes it’s a combination of both.

What were your biggest external challenges this year? Would it be a good idea to have an action plan in case the same type of things happen again?

What were your biggest internal challenges? Do you know what triggers them?

Can you set up a system to give you an early cue and a plan to acknowledge and tame the gremlins quicker?
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Moving Forward in 2011

Look some things were really good from last year and other things – well we can learn something from them – even when it’s really hard.

Looking over the accomplishments what do you really want to focus on this year to make life even better? Give yourself some of the compassion that you give to your ill loved one.


Compassionately look over your challenges. How could you kindly help yourself in these areas?


What support would you like to make it easier for you?


Let us know- we admire and support all those who love someone with a mental illness. Wishing you all a happy and healthy 2011!

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~April